Mother of Divine Providence

 have you ever seen Face cut-out boards? they are in the parks, resorts and other malls. There is a hole in the picture. You go there and put your face for the picture

• Avengers picture, Superman, Spiderman, 

• In the picture of Mother of Divine Providence, I see a face cut-out board. The face of Jesus. You cut it and try to imagine you are sleeping on the lap of your mother. 

• The church that preserves the image of this mother. God allows us to put ourselves in his place and rest our heads on her chest on every occasion of need. God allows you to take his place. 

• In every Airline, there are seat selection fees. People want to choose window seats to see the plane landing and taking up. People spend money to choose their seats to enjoy their travel. Some refuse to give up their seat even to PWD or pregnant women. For some people it is tough to share their seat with someone, they are attached to the place. 

In the Picture of Mother of Divine Providence, God allows us to use his seat in his mother. 

God has not forbidden us anything, he gave himself for us. Who would do it? Maybe some parents, but even there is the limit of human weakness. God is sharing everything with us including his mother. What she is telling us Do everything what He says. He said to love another. Mother of Divine Providence is the message of love over war and violence. are you able to give place to your neighbor? 

2. Bride: 

• Question of Br. Dien, there is no figure of the bride in the Gospel of this morning? Bride? 

• The bride is an interesting figure at the wedding. The image of the bride in the Mediterranean culture, it is not less to the bridegroom, she is the one who follows the bridegroom, going to merge with him in his life. During the wedding, suspense is the arrival of the bride. The groom should always arrive before the bride; the bride should come mamaya, otherwise it will be bad luck. She should be accompanied by the mother/father of the bridegroom. 

The relationship of the bride with the friends of the bridegroom is called accompaniment. 

He who has the bride is the bridegroom; but the friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly because of the bridegroom's voice. (Jn 3:29)

How can a Jewish mother command to the strange friends?  At the wedding at Cana, Mary presents the disciples and accompanies them, disciples, to the bridegroom: She says, “Do whatever he tells you”. 

The bride is following the bridegroom with trust and obedience. This act of mutual trust and obedience is not only necessary for a successful married life but also for any vocational discernment, revealing perfect, implicit and cheerful obedience. 

A group of young consecrated women had founded a home in the village for the elderly and for abandoned children, with the support of the parish priest Fr. Carlo Coppini, who died earlier that year. The Providence showed them Fr. Guanella, priest of prejudice, “hot-head man!” But they trusted simply like the disciples believing the words of Mary. (included Clare and Marcellina Bosatta), Because of the trust, they shifted from Pianello to Como,  Dear Sisters, do not be afraid to trust with strong faith when carrying on our Guanella’s works of charity.  

Nov 12, 2025; Thalavadi

Mother of Providence 

சத்தி டூ தளவாடி தீபாவளி பேருந்து 

கர்ச்சிப்பு கூடை, துண்டு போட்டு இடம் பிடித்தல், 

தேர்தல் எல்லாம் முதல்வர் எம்எல்ஏ சீட்டுக்காக இடம் பிடித்தல், 

ஒவ்வொரு விமான நிறுவனத்திலும், இருக்கை தேர்வு கட்டணங்கள் உள்ளன. விமானம் தரையிறங்குவதையும், விமானம் எடுப்பதையும் பார்க்க மக்கள் ஜன்னல் இருக்கைகளைத் தேர்வு செய்ய விரும்புகிறார்கள்.

சிலருக்கு தங்கள் இருக்கையை ஒருவருடன் பகிர்ந்து கொள்வது மிகவும் கடினம், சிலர் PWD அல்லது கர்ப்பிணிப் பெண்களுக்கு கூட தங்கள் இருக்கையை விட்டுக்கொடுக்க மறுக்கிறார்கள்.

• கடவுள் தன்னுடைய இருக்கையை நமக்காக விட்டுத் தருகிறார். 
• தான் தவழ்ந்த அன்னை மடியை நமக்காக தியாகம் செய்கிறார். 
• தான் பெற்ற அன்னையின் அரவணைப்பை நமக்காக பகிர்ந்து கொள்கிறார். 
• கடவுள் உங்களை அவருடைய அன்னையின் இதயத்தில் இடத்தைப் பிடிக்க அனுமதிக்கிறார். 

நீங்கள் எப்போதாவது முக கட்-அவுட் பலகைகளைப் பார்த்திருக்கிறீர்களா? அவை பூங்காக்கள், ரிசார்ட்டுகள் மற்றும் பிற மால்களில் உள்ளன. • அவெஞ்சர்ஸ் படம், சூப்பர்மேன், ஸ்பைடர்மேன், படத்தில் அவர்களின் முகத்தில் ஒரு ஓட்டை உள்ளது. நீங்கள் அங்கு சென்று படத்திற்காக உங்கள் முகத்தை வைக்கவும்

தெய்வீக பிராவிடன்ஸின் தாயின் படத்தில், நான் ஒரு முக கட்-அவுட் பலகையைப் பார்க்கிறேன். இயேசுவின் முகம். நீங்கள் அதை வெட்டி உங்கள் தாயின் மடியில் தூங்குவதாக கற்பனை செய்ய முயற்சிக்கிறீர்கள். 

கடவுள் நம்மை அவருடைய இடத்தில் வைத்து, தேவைப்படும் ஒவ்வொரு சந்தர்ப்பத்திலும் நம் தலையை அவள் மார்பில் வைக்க அனுமதிக்கிறார்.

தெய்வீக பிராவிடன்ஸின் தாயின் படத்தில், கடவுள் தனது தாயில் தனது இருக்கையைப் பயன்படுத்த அனுமதிக்கிறார்.

கடவுள் நமக்கு எதையும் தடை செய்யவில்லை, அவர் நமக்காக தன்னையே கொடுத்தார். யார் அதைச் செய்வார்கள்? ஒருவேளை சில பெற்றோர்கள், ஆனால் மனித பலவீனத்திற்கும் எல்லை உண்டு. கடவுள் தனது தாய் உட்பட அனைத்தையும் நம்முடன் பகிர்ந்து கொள்கிறார். 

'இயேசுவின் தாயும் நம் தாயுமான மரியா

இணைமீட்பர் அல்ல' - சொல்கிறது வத்திக்கான். திருத்தந்தை 14-ஆம் லியோ அவர்களுடைய அனுமதியுடன் இறைநம்பிக்கைக்கான கோட்பாட்டுக்கான திருப்பேராயம் (Dicastery for the Doctrine of Faith) இன்று  (4 நவம்பர் '25) வெளியிட்ட 'மாத்தெர் போப்புலி ஃபிதெலிஸ்' (Mater Populi Fidelis) ('நம்பிக்கைநிறை இறைமக்களின் தாய்') என்னும் ஏடு, அன்னை கன்னி மரியாவை, 'இணைமீட்பர்' ('co-redemptrix') என்றும் 'துணைஇணைப்பாளர்' ('co-mediatrix') என்றும் அழைப்பதைத் தடைசெய்கிறது.

இதன் அன்னை ஒரு இணை மீடப்பாளர் அன்று மாறாக அவர் அன்றி நமக்கு மீட்பு கிடைப்பது கடினம், அவள் நமக்குச் சொல்வது என்னவென்றால், அவர் சொல்வதைச் செய்யுங்கள். அவர் இன்னொருவரை நேசிக்கச் சொன்னார். போர் மற்றும் வன்முறைக்கு எதிரான அன்பின் செய்தி தெய்வீக பிராவிடன்ஸின் தாய். உங்கள் அண்டை வீட்டாருக்கு இடம் கொடுக்க உங்களால் முடியுமா?

All Souls Day

The Church is perceived in three stages: the pilgrim Church here on earth, the suffering Church in the purgatory; and the glorified Church in heaven. This is the feast of the glorified Church.

1. How does the Bible understand death? The Holy Bible uses the following metaphors to bring forth the meaning of death: (f) ‘Sleep’ (cf. Jn 11:11-14. Mk 5:39). Describing Lazarus’s death, Jesus says, ‘Lazarus is sleeping.’ Death is understood as a long, deep sleep.

What do we do on All Souls Day?

Saint Augustine, in his Confessions, recording about his mother’s (Saint Monica’s) death, writes: “We thought that my mother would have desired to be buried near her husband. But she told us, ‘You bury me wherever you want to! My Lord is able to resurrect me from anywhere. But forget me not at the altar.’”

Monica’s words tell us three things: (a) At our death, our body does not matter to us anymore. The body dies, but the soul lives. (b) We must remember and pray for the dead; and (c) We will rise one day. The Lord will resurrect our body and soul.

The Sacred Tradition of the Church invites us to remember and pray for the dead. In the first reading, the author of Wisdom of Solomon says, “The souls of the righteous are in the hands of God.” The souls that are in our hands when we are alive will go to God when we die. They go to the safest place. Jesus says in the gospel reading, “All will come to me.” All will go to Jesus on the Last Day and all will obtain eternal life. The second reading invites us to be united with Jesus in his death so that we may be united with him in life eternal.

3. The memorial gives us three life lessons:

(a) Memento mori! Carpe diem!

Life is short. Life that is lived with our last step in mind is lived well. As the candle melts, our lives melt, and as the smoke of the incense disappears, we too disappear. But as long as we are alive, we give light, and we give fragrance. These brothers and sisters, whom we recall today, gave light, life, and sweetness to our lives. Remember death (memento mori)! and seize the day, every day (carpe diem)!

(b) Life before death!

Often times, we are preoccupied with life after death. But it is our life before death that defines our life after. Let us fix our minds and hearts here on earth and live our lives well, with gratitude and care.

(c) We are not alone – at death!

Death frightens us because we have to face it alone. But we are not alone in death. As we remember our near and dear ones, we will be remembered and prayed for. Death is a thin fence between our loved ones and us.

‘All will come to me!’ These are the words of Jesus and of the tomb! But we are not afraid. For there is life beyond the tomb. The empty tomb of Jesus is the answer to the tombs that we visit today. At this tomb, we will see the one who sees us (cf. Gen 16).

“Grant them eternal rest, O Lord! May the perpetual light shine upon them!

May the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace. Amen.”

Feast of St. Luigi Guanella

 Life in the Congregation is like a plant. One day, God planted the seed of your vocation in your heart; that is why you are here. Remember and give thanks to many people who used to water the plant, providing sunlight for you to grow and giving fertilizers so that one day you could become a tree and that your life becomes a part of history in this congregation. 

Three main parts of the plant, for our religious life: 

1. Root: A tree cannot exist without a root even though it is invisible. The tree exists because of its roots. Sometimes after the typhoon, branches fall down.  But still, the plants can continue to grow because they have good roots. If you prune and cut the leaves, the plant grows back still, but if you cut the roots, the plant will die. So, the root is the Charism, not the founder, what the Founder has been called by God for. God revealed at a certain point in his life that God is our Father who can take care of all of us more than our earthly fathers and children. As for the children, he is close to those who are abandoned and fragile. This charism is the root. We need to put our faith in this root. It is God who does! God can change, God will transform. God of Jesus, God of Founder, God of Chiara, and God of Bacciarini.

We need to be ‘Rooted in the Guanellian Charism for the Universal mission’. Therefore, we intend to keep and develop the gifts alive in us, especially the gift of a vocation to the Guanellian consecrated life and the ordained ministry. 

Please take care of your root; since it is not visible, sometimes we may ignore it and not take care of it. How to take care of the roots? By watering and giving some fertilizers.  We need to feed our spiritual life very often through prayer, the word of God and formation.

2. Stem: Stems are usually above ground, although the stems of some plants, such as the potato, also grow underground. One of the functions of the stem is to be supportive and helpful to stand on the ground. Direct connection between the root and stem. Some stems are very strong. They reveal the life span of the tree with the stem. The stem is the spirit that keeps us together as one tree - one family. 

Charism is ancient. The stem is the reality. How do we live the spirit today? The Founder was a man of his time and lived his best according to how Spirit inspired him with his skills and his personal intuition. Our Constitution no.1 affirms, "The Holy Spirit called the Founder, made him fervent in the charity and sent him to relieve the human suffering. Don Guanella responded with the offering of his lifetime”.  But today’s guanellians must imitate him by discerning and applying not necessary in the same way as Guanella. For this reason, we cannot remain in the past, (of course! we are proud of being guanellians, belonging to an international Congregation, which has a history full of graces from the Lord and works in favor of the poor). We cannot look or speak only about the past but have a big future to construct or build. That depends upon our touch with reality. We studied the nine successors of the Congregation. Make a time travel and go and live a day with every one of them. Saints were holy persons before and after death. Other denominations argue with Christians in this aspect, because God is the only saint, while human beings are capable of making mistakes. But they remain as models. Respect them and their opinions, let them to make mistakes and use traditional preventive methods. 

The Spirit asks for a personal and community response appropriate to the time in which we live, in the human, cultural and religious context in which we are immersed and of which we are an integral part. 

3. Fruits/flowers: Humans love only these two parts; Flowers and fruits. Jesus told a parable of the vineyard; the gardener is looking for the fruits. So, he said to the gardener, 'See here! For three years I have come looking for fruit on this fig tree, and still, I find none”. Flowers are useful for decoration; fruits are served at the table. We judge the congregation by the quality of its mission. 

The delicacy of our caring: Some plants, such as watermelon and cucumber, need high temperatures for fruiting and flowering. Whereas carrots grow at colder temperatures (available in winter). There are some plants giving flowers throughout the year. Some flowers will bloom only after so many years. The Kurinji flower is one of the rarest flowers that bloom once every 12 years in India. The poor people are the creatures of God; they are different, and everyone is a treasure in our eyes. 

Fr. Guanella was an attentive and passionate educator. He had a passion for improving the fragile, and weakest, the least ones. This needs training, sacrifice, and sometimes investing time and money. 

For Fr. Guanella, the service of charity was not only the place where holiness is expressed but also the place in which holiness comes into being and matures; holiness develops in and with charity. By the quality of our mission, we are being educated, being evangelized. 

Two of Jesus’ instructions for our life: 

1. Jesus says, "Every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit" (John 15:2). He told his disciples that in order to bear good fruits, the guanellian must also prune the trees and their branches. It cannot be considered a way of punishment. That is the Spirit of a mountaineer. We cannot think of always having an easy life, of understanding everything immediately. Human life always develops gradually. Only those who have the courage to persevere till the end will be able to realize the plan that the Lord has reserved for each of you. 

2. Jesus chose the disciples because he loved them and wanted to be with them and then sent them for the mission. That is the reason Jesus spend three years with his disciples. Do not use the word “I did” unless you have formed hearts that can generously commit themselves and do together. He knew that his disciples had to bring the Gospel to the whole world and they will shed blood and commit martyrdom. That is why Jesus took time to sow it and grow it in different cultures. This is why the formation and educational work of Jesus was very demanding. He was able to totally change the life of his disciples. I hope it is the same for us too. Much depends on us, even though the Lord will always do the most important part. We thank him on this day for all the graces he has given us and let us be willing to receive the most abundant graces he will still give us.

Homily 2:     Don Guanella - a filial and merciful heart

The Statue of Guanella with his sister, preparing the soup for the poor, in front of the Casa Natale of Founder’s House, Fraciscio, the artwork of Alfredo Vismara, 

The family was the origin of his faith, his parents are the ones who nourished them in faith, the whole, on the left side, the variety of his poor are present, including his priests, sisters, and lay persons, indicating the mission of the Congregation, 

Agostino, the museum's director, explains that everything is the life and spirit of our founder. But where is God, the cross, the Sacred Heart? 

Soup: God was the Food. His main food was the Lord whom he observed from the room in the Como sanctuary. Faith was the rock of this family, His focus was letting himself be educated by God, “Look continuously at your Father, see that He gives you bread to live, and just smile at Him with gentle affection.”

The call of Providence was the criterion that guided him in establishing his works; he was not self-seeking, nor did he wish to make his dreams come true. He declared without hesitation, “If I knew that my work was not wanted by God, I would be the first to destroy it!” Near the end of his life,

Soup for everyone: The soup he was preparing for the poor with his sister Caterina was not only for the poor of his village or diocese, but God blessed that soup so that it could become food for the abandoned nations. That simple soup became bread, and the desire of mission became Lord in his life. In his simplicity, Don Guanella brought bread and the Lord to many. Deepening his call, his dreams became bigger and bigger. Diocese of Como, Mission of Don Bosco, Switzerland, USA, and other parts of the world. Don Guanella received the charism from the Holy Spirit both for the local and for the universal Church.

Together with others: with her sister, who has the same wavelength of mind, later with the persons who challenged him, some of the bishops disagreed with his projects, some of the priests of Servants did not collaborate with him, he is happy just to stay together in the family, 

When someone’s heart is filled with God’s grace, the material world cannot manage to corrupt him. For the first time, the general chapter received the different voices from 26 countries of the world. Twenty-six gifts and problems/concerns, 26 aspects of our charism. 

Today we celebrate the feast of our Founder, his birth into Heaven. Let us reflect upon the charism that imprinted his whole life.

This love was merciful. His model was Jesus himself who pours graces from his Heart on the simple God’s children.

Why is Don Guanella a saint today? Where is his secret of sanctity? We may give many answers, but probably many could be partially covering the subject. One could be that Don Guanella trusted God as a child and trusted his own father. There may be moments of anguish or torment, but not of fear. That filial heart can then accept the neighbor as its brother and sister and be merciful towards them.

Today we live that charism in our communities. Our charism is not the same as Don Guanella’s one. We inspire our actions in the words and deeds of the Founder, but we complete it in our own way, everyone is different here and two priests or two sisters will not do the same thing in the same way.

But that should never scare us as long as we find our strength and inspiration in God and the Founder. We are his children, his heirs. The family is one with many children and many different characters. We should imitate our Founder in his simplicity of a child and total abandonment of God. Then we can carry the love of God to the good children and the whole world as the Founder did.